Create your own Charisma

Envy someone who has a “X” factor, and wish you had the same impact on people, the same magnetic appeal? Well I have good news for you... Charisma can be created here's how:

1. Create a signature look. Develop a personal style with which you are comfortable and that makes the appropriate statement about you and the image you want to project.
2. Be the boss of your body. When you enter a room,walk in like you own the joint. Hold your head high and keep your back straight. Send a message that you can handle anything.
3. Create a special connection. Eye contact is probably the most important ingredient in creating a special connection with people. Master this skill and you will begin to enjoy the magic of charisma.
4. Don't put yourself down. When you make a self-deprecating comment, it drains your power. Your listeners focus on the negative aspects. And forget the rest. Focus on your strengths and highlight your accomplishments instead.
5. Learn to to take compliments graciously. When someone compliments you and you deflect it, you are undermining yourself and the other person they don't know what they're talking about. So next time someone says something nice, smile and say thank you. Enjoy the gift.
6. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Focus on people's good qualities. When you make denigrating comments about another person, you are the one who winds up looking small and petty.
7. Never “wing it”. Prepare and do your homework every time you make a presentation,network, or attend a business event. By taking time to properly prepare, You can ease your nerves. Your confidence level will be high and you will be poised and in control.

Green Enough Housekeeping

Are you a environmentally conscious person? If you are... This tips are just right for you.

I grew up in a green household. My mother cleaned with vinegar,baking soda, and lemon juice because it was practical, cheaper than other products and performs just as effectively. Plus, they don't give off nasty fumes, harm our body system, or add a lot of extra packaging to landfills.

Here are some of my favorites.

SALT For scrubbing gunk off wooden cutting boards, glass baking dishes, and pet bowls
Sprinkle a liberal amount on a damp sponge and wipe.

BAKING SODA for banishing stinky odors
Springkle a few tablespoon in the bottom of an empty gym bag and leave overnight: pour a liberal amount onto a trash can before putting in a new bag.

CORNSTARCH For absorbing oil and grease spills on clothing, upholstery, and leather
Pat on enough to cover stains (try to get them before they set); let it sit awhile, then remove with a toothbrush or vacuum.

LEMON JUICE For fading stains on unfinished wood, such as butcher block
Apply with a cotton swab, then air-dry.

CREAM OF TARTAR For removing rust from white porcelain fixtures
Mix 2 tablespoon of cream of tartar with a few drops of 3 percent hydrogen peroxide to make a paste; apply to stain and let sit. After paste dries, rinse off.

3 PERCENT HYDROGEN PEROXIDE For killing mildew on bath tiles; sanitizing plastic cutting boards
Sponge over area; let dry,then rinse well.Mop up spills quickly (hydrogen peroxide can cause fading).

Be more Ipod Aware

Listening to tunes in public can leave you vulnerable.

The coolest thing about ipod is that it allows you to tune out the world around you so you can peacefully chill in your own musical bubble. Problem is you may also end up tuned out to subtle signs of danger.

“Studies show that gadgets like this lower a person’s awareness and slow a person’s awareness and slow down their reaction time,” explains Lyn Bates, vice president of AWARE, a woman’s safety organization in the U.S. “So even though you think you’re paying enough attention, you’re actually much more likely to ignore a red light or not realize that a sketchy guy is following you.”

So guys let us all play it safe by keeping the volume low or by wearing only one ear bud.

Remembering my Lola Anita

The reason why it took me so long to update my blog was due to my Grandmother's or Lola in tagalog recently passed away. She died at the age of 78.

It still hurt me till now because I wasn't able to show her how much I care for her and love her. How I wish I spent more time with her if I only knew that she will leave us so soon...

She's been a brave and strong lady, She's not showing us any signs that her health condition is already worst. Maybe because she didn't want her family to worry about her, that's why we are really shock when we learned about her untimely death.

So in her memory, I made this slide show for her and her bereaved family. I also wanna thank all the people who condoled with us. And if she's seeing this right now, I want her to know how important she is to me and her memory will lives forever in my heart.

inkamin lola...ay-ayatin ka.
(Farewell grandma... I love you so much)

EAT TOGETHER, STAY TOGETHER

When was the last time you, your husband, and your kids ate together as a whole family?

Mealtimes are perfect venues for spending quality times, as family members come together from their separate,daily lives and enjoy one another's company.

"Eating together teaches manners both trivial and momentous, putting you in touch with the deeper springs of human relations," says Miriam Weinstein, author of The Surprising Power of Family Meals.

Eating together not only keeps the family bonded through conversation, it also contributes to the well being of your children. In fact I have read that A Columbia University study, The Importance of Family Dinners, reports that sharing family meals lessens the risk of teenagers developing substance abuse problems, and improves their school performance.

Baguio's Historical & Cultural Attraction

Historical Attractions

1. Kennon Road
Kennon Road is the shortest and the most scenic highway linking Baguio and the lowlands. This was named after Col. Lyman W. Kennon who was its final builder. The industrious Cordilleras and foreign workers assisted him. The road was substantially finished in 1903.

2. Teachers Camp
It was through the vacation normal school that teachers from all over the islands were able to have a respite and have some time for studies. In a letter to the Secretary of Public Instruction, Governor William Pack outlined his plan to set up a camp in Baguio where teachers can be accommodated. The plan was approved on January 8, 1908 and was opened on April 6, 1908

3. Mansion House
The imposing and majestic Baguio Mansion House has housed a long list of Filipino presidents and American governor-generals. It has an elegantly structured building and guesthouse. Its gate is patterned after that of London's Buckingham Palace.

4. Philippine Military Academy
The Philippine Military Academy is the Philippine's premier military institution. True to its mission to "instruct, train, and develop the cadets so that they shall possess the character, the broad and basic military skills, and the education essential to the pursuit of a progressive military career", the PMA, as it is more popularly known, has honed the best military officers in our country today. It has complete training and educational facilities to mold the future officers of the Armed Forces of the Philippines.

Cultural Attractions

1. Woodcarvers Village
Along the way to Asin, about 5 kms from the city, is an Ifugao wood carving village, which sells beautiful carved curio items at very low prices.

2. Saint Louis Filigree Shop
A handicraft shop specializing in silver jewelry and other filigree products. Some of the craftsmen are only high school students. This shop is in the center of the city and was established in 1916.

A trip to Baguio would not be complete without a stroll down Session Road. Drop by Star Café. Check out the stores. Drink some Chinese tea. Grab a sweater. Enjoy all the ukay-ukay stores. Watch the locals. At one point or another, you’ll meet somebody you know, who just happened to be haggling with a woman selling knitted hats. Many times, I’ve bumped into some celebrities and just recently, I got the chance to see Mr. Mike Enriquez and have a picture with him. You may also bumped into people you haven’t seen in years in Manila at Session and it’s always a happy occasion. If you hang around long enough, you’ll see the world.

It's time to revisit Baguio City..cont.

For the Religious Attractions, Baguio Cathedral this place is one of the familiar landmarks in Baguio. The structure with its twin spires and one hundred steps sits on top of a small hill in the heart of the city, offering churchgoers and visitors a chance to get a bird's eye view of the entire commercial hub. It was opened to the public last November 25, 1990 during the Christ the King celebration.

Bell Church This cluster of temples is located on the border of Baguio City and Trinidad Valley. Its exotic oriental architecture features pagoda roofs, an ornate gateway, dragon ornaments and Buddha guarded windows that gaze from atop a hill. The Bell Temple priest practices a mixture of Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism and Christianity. One may even try having his fortune told.

Lourdes Grotto. This is a religious shrine housing the image of the Lady of Lourdes. About 252 steps lead to this shrine where pilgrims brave the steep climb to offer sacrifices, devotion and prayers. One is also regarded with a beautiful panoramic view of the city.

It's time to revisit Baguio City..cont.

For the Religious Attractions, Baguio Cathedral this place is one of the familiar landmarks in Baguio. The structure with its twin spires and one hundred steps sits on top of a small hill in the heart of the city, offering churchgoers and visitors a chance to get a bird's eye view of the entire commercial hub. It was opened to the public last November 25, 1990 during the Christ the King celebration.

Bell Church This cluster of temples is located on the border of Baguio City and Trinidad Valley. Its exotic oriental architecture features pagoda roofs, an ornate gateway, dragon ornaments and Buddha guarded windows that gaze from atop a hill. The Bell Temple priest practices a mixture of Buddhism, Taoism, Confucianism and Christianity. One may even try having his fortune told.

Lourdes Grotto. This is a religious shrine housing the image of the Lady of Lourdes. About 252 steps lead to this shrine where pilgrims brave the steep climb to offer sacrifices, devotion and prayers. One is also regarded with a beautiful panoramic view of the city.

It's Time to Revisit Baguio City...next

There are so many places in Baguio that you and your family would really enjoy. Like the Botanical Garden it is also called the Igorot village, which used to feature native huts typical of Cordillera architecture. This village captures the ethnic spirit and cultural legacy of the Igorot dweller. The garden is also a site of cultural presentations and other tribal meetings.

Burnham Park It is the oldest of all Baguio parks. One can unwind from the tension of the day-to-day bustle by biking, skating or simply reflecting on the day's experiences amid a soothing backdrop of colorful flowers. It is wooded and is great place to have picnics and concerts. There are tennis and basketball courts, a football field, athletic oval and an orchidarium.

The Camp John Hay It is still the extraordinary beautiful base, which the American forces turned over last July 1, 1991 to the Philippine government. It is now open to the public. Its excellent cottages, golf courses, bowling lanes, dining places and natural ambience are all preserved and maintained.

Mines View Appropriately named for its breathtaking views of mountain ranges and Baguio's "mineral bowl" where gold, silver and other ores were once quarried. There are now numerous souvenir shops around the park offering such items as woodcarvings, woven cloth, ashtrays, shell products and other curio items.

Wright Park It is sometimes mistakenly called "Ride Park" by some who identify this pine tree park reserve for its kiddy horse rides. A long stairway leads to the "Pool of the Pines", a 100 meter long pool of water lined on both sides by the famous Baguio towering pine.

It's time to revisit Baguio City

Its vacation time once again!

What is your memory of Baguio? Like most Filipinos, I have plenty. I remember eating strawberries while enjoying the scenery in mines view with my parents when I was ten, walking down Session with my Barkadas when I was 16, discovers all the cool place there at 25, and going ukay-crazy at 30.

Baguio has always been the favorite vacation destination, especially to those who long for cooler climes, and now that summer is already here, city folks just have another reason to go up the mountains again.

Market! Market! Here you could find the most affordable prices of broccolis, strawberries, cauliflower, peanut brittle the pickings are endless. What I love about the Baguio Public Market is the freshness of it all. Everything is screaming green and fresh and best of all, clean! And oh, lets not forget the “walis tambo” you can buy a bunch of it to last a year.

To be continued...

Financial Strategy Tips

Starting a budget may seem like an impossible task, especially when the numbers just won’t balance (which means you have less money coming in each month than you have going out) and this continues, year after year. Our family faced the same challenge for many years due to an unfortunate combination of job losses and medical bills.

Our family is living proof that even when your numbers don’t add up you can not only SURVIVE it, but you can also get out of debt, get back on track and finally start building your savings! I suppose that old saying we dread to hear... "What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!" is actually very true.

We also relied heavily on our personal gifts of faith, patience and determination to persevere when we could have easily given up and thrown in the towel. If you're facing difficult times of any sort or have in the past, I'm sure you can relate. I think these virtues are not to be overlooked and can make the difference between success and failure. You have to hold on to your faith and know you can make it, giving up is just not an option. Accepting that things are never going to get better, is not an option either. Your finances can get better, your life can get better, and you can help make it happen!!!

What is that other saying about when you're at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on? Maybe you feel like that's where you're at right now; like you have to just hang on and survive. I understand that, we've been there! But while you're hanging on, you can also start planning, start making changes in your life to get your finances to get back on track. And pray, pray a lot! Everything you do (no matter how small it may seem to you right now), can make a difference. You can do this!

Managing your money well does not happen overnight. It is a process that can take many years to work through, but one that is well worth the extra effort, commitment and determination that it takes to succeed.

The changes that each family will need to make to get their budget balanced may be different, but one thing that will likely be the same is the need to take things one day at a time... ONE STEP AT A TIME.

And all you have to do right now is begin!

My Memorable Beyonce' Experience

I wasn’t able to leave my office early last Wednesday to catch the concert of Beyonce’ at the Fort. But thank God, I was still able to catch it on time, I also thank God that it did not rain on my way to the venue, although it rained in that afternoon. My Husband and I met in Alabang , and rode his motorcycle, Silver.

The traffic was awful in the area, good thing we found a parking slot early. I managed to saw a lot of celebrity walking towards the venue. Richard Gomez, Cesar Montano and his wife Sunshine Cruz were among the celebrity I saw. There are a lot of teenage fans of Beyonce’

Our tickets are not that expensive so we never got that too close to the stage. Bad thing I didn’t have any good shots taken because of the distance of the stage to our place.

I didn’t know who was the local hip-hop artist who open up the show. But when the black curtain was lowered across the stage, you just cant explain the excitement that mounts up the venue. In a sexy silver gown, Beyonce’ pops out off the stage and wham, the crowd goes wild and wooly, cheering for Beyonce’. My Husband was stunned by the sexiness of Beyonce’ and couldn’t speak for a moment.

Good thing there was a big screen mounted on the stage, so I can still view her electrifying dance moves. Also there are some pre-recorded material being shown on the big screen. My favorite part of the show was when she sung Survivor, It was just so awesome, her adrenalin was so pumped up. It really moves the crowd and you can see a lot of people dancing.

Her finale, Irreplaceable had the whole crowd singing with her. And I too sang with her. Never had seen the crowd so alive and energetic in a concert. Beyonce’ surely knows how to bring down the house. This is my Beyonce’ that I’ll never forget.

My Introduction

Hello World !!!! Hello my dearest friends, starting today I’m gonna embark on a new world. The world of Blogging, a big influence by my husband, I’ll start on my own web page.

On my web page, I’ll talk all about the good life, recipes, some money saving tips, being a mom tip and every girl, woman or lady needs to have a good life.

But for now, this is just an introduction to my web page or as I may call it PEACHY’S CORNER, I’ll keep you updated every time I have some smart ideas and thoughts to share.

Let’s all enjoy the good life that GOD has given to us.